Thursday, August 28, 2008

Hey guys, its been a while now. Laugh out louds. I've been kind of cooped up with school work and activites for the past week and maybe this but not to the point where I'm suffocating. Things been going on constant for me and I've got back my report book today for the results of term 3. Didn't exactly did well nor did badly but there is some benign and drastic improvements for certain subjects, and some improvements overall. I only failed my Mother Tongue, its because of the paper 2 compre. Didn't really comprehended the passage well, so it wasn't really done well. However, I believe I could have done better if writing compos as paper 1 was taken into account.

Anyway, I've really been seriously thinking about the thinking of humanity and how it works. It's kind of a interesting topic to ponder on but also one topic that is kept vaguely ambivalent, dependant on constant research and further thinking of humanity itself. Basically, it's about psychology I think. The studying of human behavior and actions, making inference from the behavior of someone and studying it. Sometimes its quite cool to pen down what are the possible variables that a particular person is facing and also the possible cause, effect, rationale, emotion and the possible course of action one can possibly have and how and what is he or she going to do and react or respond to. In other words, putting youself in the shoes of others and coming out with rationales or reasons to satisfy your curiosity for their actions and behavior.

What you can actually do with the set of answers is at best explain the theory you have about somebody so that the other individual that cant understand would not live in bitterness or you would be ending their detour, placing them back on the right track.

In worst case or maybe cases that would not appear to help somebody but you know it would, will be manipulation. The manipulating happens every now and then, no matter intentionally or unintentionally, what matters is how you go about doing it.

With a set of tedious answers rooted out and brainstormed, you'd probably have a much higher chances of success in talking someone into something you want. It happens evertime, its just with or without the thinking behind. Hence, this is a part of function your subconcious mind holds which most people don't realise. It can be for a good cause or for selfish gains, it's just what I've thought about.

What you can conclude is that the urge to point fingers and start accusing people at a single lead and from the perspective of just an angle, isn't really a wise choice to begin with. Think and find ways to find the answers you want, and make a decision out of it when you have things confirmed.

Its like someone saying he/she hates something and don't know anything about the things he/she hates, last thing they want is to know something about it. You can see a slight contridiction here, because in order for you to hate something, you must first know something about it, so over here what's interesting is the cause of the dislike. So lets say you want he/she to find out about certains things you want to know and it just happened he/she hates it. You have to think about the background and the situation faced by the individual and come out with what he/she knows about it, causing the hate. When you have the findings, you checked its credibilty, it's its credible you already got your answer for what you want to know. Otherwise, you would have to think of reasons for he/she to lie to you and counter it for a definitive answer.



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